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Who’s Your Bannerman?

You Are Worth Loyalty – So Who’s Your Bannerman?

Your Bannerman carries your standard into battle, is devoted to you, and is loyal to your cause. Photo from moddb.com.

Your Bannerman carries your standard into battle, is devoted to you, and is loyal to your cause. Photo from moddb.com.

At a certain point in your Tribe-formation, you begin to get loyalty.

People actually begin to identify with you; with your message and your vision.

Spontaneously, they offer their support. They carry your standard into battle.

Not because you’re paying them, or because you’ve signed some Joint Venture Partnership (JVP) agreement.

Rather, these people find themselves in alignment with your leadership.

Using a very medieval (or Game of Thrones) term, these people are your bannermen.

This may actually come as a surprise.

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Emerging from the Wilderness

You know that song, Keep Your Eyes on That Prize:

The only thing I did was wrong,
Was staying in the Wilderness too long.

Read more: Bruce Springsteen – Eyes On The Prize Lyrics | MetroLyrics

You may have – for a long time – been so much of a Wanderer; so much so that you believed yourself to live completely on the outskirts of society.

But – as the song goes in The Lord of the Rings:

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All That Is Gold … , read by Sir Christopher Lee, who played Saruman in the movie trilogy, The Lord of the Rings.

All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost …

(From The Fellowship of the Ring, Book 1 of the Lord of the Rings Trilogy, by J.R. Tolkien. For details, see The LoR Wiki, All that is gold does not glitter.

As you emerge from Wandering, start forming your Tribe, and become a strong leader, people form around you – not just passively, but actively.

Some of these people become allies.

Some become your Bannermen.

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Side Note: Your Wanderer Stage Is Essential

In the process of becoming a true leader, your Wanderer stage is essential. It’s where you separate yourself from cultural norms, go into the wilds, and figure out for yourself who you are, what you’re doing, and what you stand for.

Carol Pearson, in her significant and groundbreaking work, The Hero Within, was the first to point out the importance your Wanderer stage.

At a certain point, though, like Aragorn (Strider) in The Lord of the Rings, you emerge from Wandering, become a Warrior, and claim your kingdom.

During this time, you begin to accrue both loyal followers and allies.

In particular, some of those loyal followers are bannermen.

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Recognize that You Have Attained Sun Tzu’s Moral Influence

Sun Tzu

Sun Tzu, 544-496 BCE; Chinese general and military strategist, author of “The Art of War.”

When you have what Sun Tzu described as moral influence, you are ready to lead.

How do you know that you have moral influence?

Sometimes, pure sheer tenacity.

Staying with your goal, your vision, long enough – through enough adversity and hardship.

Refining and cultivating and sharing your vision.

For what may seem to be a hugely long time.

 

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So Who Is Your Bannerman?

He or she does these kinds of things for you – spontaneously, of their own free will, and without being asked:

  1. Introduces you to their own Tribe – with a glowing recommendation,
  2. Consistently Likes your Facebook post – not so much because they “like” that particular post, but because they want to advocate what you are doing,
  3. Mentions you in their blog, provides an unsolicited weblink to your site – again, without a pre-arrangement for mutual benefit or compensation.

Sometimes, you’re a bannerman for someone else.

A Bannerman Example

Over Winter Solstice, I wrote my first Twelve Lessons of Solstice, aimed to help people fall in love with themselves, and open to deep personal transformation.

Out of these Twelve Lessons – each a separate email and associated web page – I quoted from one of my colleague’s books, and gave a link to her website – not just once, but four different times. (This was for Alicja Jones’ forthcoming Own Your Power.)

Specifically – I mentioned, quoted from, and linked to her book four times – and scarcely mentioned my own.

That’s loyalty. That’s being a Bannerman.

Another Bannerman Example

A couple of months ago, I was reaching out to friends who had friends, encouraging them to Opt-In with one of my lists.

One of these not only forwarded my invitation to her group – about ten of her most trusted and cherished friends, her inner circle – she wrote a glowing recommendation for me. Really talked me up, in a way that was surprising and very wonderful – and totally unexpected.

This Christmas, she purchased a couple of copies of my book to give to her friends as a Christmas present, and took some wonderful seasonal photos of me.

She is definitely one of my Bannermen. (Or Bannerwoman, as the gender-specific case may be.)

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You Have a Right – and a Duty – to Assess Loyalty

We sometimes tend to give strongly of ourselves.

At times, we need to look closely at who is giving back.

This morning, we woke up to a total of eight inches of snow that fell over the last 24 hours.

I live in a Household with several other adults.

I spent 2 1/2 hours yesterday shoveling and blowing snow. I’d gotten over my desire to simply hibernate (until March), and gotten out there. By the time that I’d done pure, simple snow shoveling for over an hour, the endorphins from good exercise kicked in.

Still, I was tired and grumpy when I stopped last evening.

The reason? Of the others in the Household, one person spent one hour shoveling snow with me. Promised to do more the next day (this morning; now this afternoon). So far, that person has stayed in her room.

Another adult – who again promised to spend most of this day shoveling – is now out there. He is redeemed.

This morning, I spent an additional 3 1/2 hours shoveling and blowing snow. I’m tired, sore, and aching.

The job is still far from done, and I’ll be out there again tomorrow.

The one person in the Household who has been most supportive is out getting treatment for Stage 4 cancer. When she returns (with her dedicated friend who’s getting her to the doctors – her own Bannerman), she’ll bring me hot food.

The others? (OK, one of them is now shoveling as I write. Just as an update.)

Go figure.

It’s easy to be loyal and supportive when the weather’s warm and sunny, and it’s picnic time.

Look at how people respond to you during crisis or crunch time to tell who’s really on your side.

And yes, it is okay to make the judgment call.

And it’s okay to remember.

Love and forgiveness are wonderful things.

But – we really are forming Tribes here. And this is not just because it’s fun, or a fantasy role-playing game.

The world is changing, loyalties are real; Tribes are real.

Ultimately, Tribes are about survival.

And loyalty counts.

Do You Have Sun Tzu’s “Moral Influence”?

Before Starting a Business or Launching Your Social Marketing Campaign: Know That You Have Sun Tzu’s “Moral Influence”

Before we move ahead – as authors, as entrepreneurs about to start a business, or as both – we can apply concepts from Sun Tzu’s The Art of War. This time-honored classic is relevant today for social marketing campaigns and to guide advertising for a small business. This is especially important if you are about to start a small business. Before you open a business, be sure to study The Art of War!

Even if yours is a home business, the business strategy recommended here – based on Sun Tzu’s writings – is essential. First, we need to assess ourselves using Sun Tzu’s “five fundamentals.” The first of these is “moral influence.”

Sun Tzu, author of  "The Art of  War."

Sun Tzu, author of the Chinese military strategy classic, “The Art of War.”

In Chapter 1 of Sun Tzu’s The Art of War, he identifies his “five fundamentals”:

  1. Moral Influence,
  2. Weather,
  3. Terrain,
  4. Command, and
  5. Doctrine.

(Go to Kingmaker to learn how each of Sun Tzu’s “five fundamentals” applies to the early-stage author/entrepreneur.)

Sun Tzu opens his second chapter by estimating the cost, per day, to field a large army. He makes it very clear that waging war (or in our terms, mounting a marketing campaign) is an expensive business. It will place a huge toll on a nation’s (or business’s) reserves.

So, before making campaign plans – whether for military, political, or business – we each need to ask ourselves, “Do I have the ‘moral influence’ that will impel me to see this through?”

What Exactly Is “Moral Influence”?

Chang Yü (whose comments on Sun Tzu’s initial writings are included in most versions of The Art of War) said:

“The systematic order above is perfectly clear. When troops are raised to chastise transgressors, the temple council first considers the adequacy of the ruler’s benevolence and the confidence of their peoples.”

Sun Tzu further explained:

“By moral influence I mean that which causes the people to be in harmony with their leaders, so that they will accompany them in life and unto death without fear of mortal peril.” (Chapter 1, Sentence 4)

Chang Yü’s comment on this is:

“When one treats people with benevolence, justice, and rightousness, and reposes confidence in them, the army will be united in mind and all will be happy to serve their leaders. The Book of Changes says: ‘In happiness at overcoming difficulties, people forget the danger of death.'”

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So what do “temple councils” and the “ruler’s benevolence” have to do with us?


Everything.

Translating Sun Tzu’s “Moral Influence” into a Social Marketing Campaign or Starting a Business

We don’t really need Sun Tzu’s writings to know that a marketing campaign will tax us greatly – in time, energy, and money. Our families and closest friends will “feel the pain.” We’ll have less time to spend with them, and less money for fun. Austerity, coupled with less “personal time,” will put a strain on everyone.

Thus, before we even begin, we have to know that the people closest to us are on our side.

Even more, we have to know – in our deepest heart of hearts – that we have something of great value to offer. We have to be supremely convinced of this value.

Further, each of us must be deeply convinced that we are the best person in the world to carry out this mission. This can’t be delegated. It’s our personal vision; our raison d’être. Our personal vision has to be so compelling, so authoritative, and so commanding, that others are willing to support us – well before the accolades, success stories, and profits come rolling in.

Your Private “Temple Council” – Your Advisory “Inner Circle” Guiding Your Business Launch

Chang Yü (see quote earlier in this post) said that the “temple council” will consider the “adequacy of the ruler’s benevolence and the confidence of their peoples.”

 Borusa's Inner Council talks with the Master.

From the Dr. Who TV Series: Borusa’s Inner Council talks with the Master. (TV: The Five Doctors)

The “temple council” is your private, typically informal, “inner circle” of business advisers. These are your “go-to” people; those whom you turn to for the deepest wisdom and guidance. You select them not only because of their smarts and savvy, but also their wisdom and spiritual maturity.

Your “temple council” will be the ones who will ask you: “Are you really ready for this?” And, “Is what you’re proposing really worth the pain that everyone will go through?”


You have to know that you’re ready.

Do You Have “Adequate Benevolence” to Start a Successful Business?

In helping you determine if you’re “launch-ready,” your “temple council” – your private “advisory inner circle” will first make their own assessment of you. They will consider the “adequacy of [your] benevolence and the confidence of [your] peoples.”

Your “benevolence” is a significant factor. Will your book, product, or service really be a benefit to others? Will it really help people in a strong, useful, meaningful way? Is what you are proposing really “benevolent”?

Second, your “temple council” will assess your personal maturity. They’ll ask themselves – and you – “Do you really have the whole-hearted support – the confidence – of the people in your life?”

You may not be asking your spouse, significant other, or family to follow you “unto death” in battle, but you may very likely be asking them to sacrifice vacations, luxuries, and time with you. Do those around you have confidence in you and your vision?


Do you have what Sun Tzu describes as “moral influence”? Do you have mastery of the remaining four of his “five fundamentals”?

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Before any politician embarks on a campaign, his or her inner circle carefully considers the politician’s spouse or significant other, as well as the most important and connected family members. Are they “confident” in this person? Will they “follow” her or him?

Before promoting an officer to the more senior ranks, the military commanders consider the officer’s spouse as a factor in the selection process. Is the spouse supportive in a useful and sustaining way? The next promotion will mean even more challenges; will the officer’s spouse help this officer succeed?

In one company which I co-founded, two of my male colleagues – part of the “initial five” – had wives who brought in six-figure incomes. Their financial support for their husbands made it possible for the husbands to focus on the new venture. They had to have the confidence of their people (their wives and children) in order to move ahead.

How To Know If You’re Really Ready to Launch Your Business or Start a Marketing Campaign

If you’re an author, the answer is usually clear. The book is done. You’re holding a copy in your hands.

Perhaps it’s not yet done, but there is enough of a draft manuscript so that you can put it down in front of someone and say, “Here. Read this.”

If you’re a product developer, you can take someone to a website and say, “Here. Try out this beta version.”

Even a good, solid, well-thought-out business plan – one with a compelling case, good research, and strong financials – can be “ready enough.”

Most often, there needs to be some prototype (in the case of a product), or some track record of providing the kind of service that you’re proposing. That’s why most initial, or “angel,” funding is for prototype development.

Government Small Business Innovative Research (SBIR) awards are first for small (typically $100K) “Phase I” proof-of-concept efforts, and then – if the “proof” is sufficiently convincing – for a (typically closer to $1M) “Phase II” prototype development. In order to get the Phase II funding, a company will have to show that the “commercialization transition” has already been worked out; a major company with strong revenues and an established product/service line is willing to take the new invention to its clients. This is where the “people” (the established transition-sponsor company) have “confidence” in the new company’s invention.

Assessing Your Own “Moral Influence”

Before you “go to war” – start your marketing campaign – you need to be sufficiently together; enough to have your own compelling sense of “moral influence.” You will know that you are ready – not when you have sufficient money in the bank, or a “finished enough” book/product/service – but rather, when you can say “yes” to these criteria:

  1. Temple Council Approval: Your “temple council” – your private advisory “inner circle” – gives you the “go-ahead,”
  2. You’re Sufficiently “Benevolent”: You are absolutely convinced that your book/product/service is “benevolent” – it will bring value to other people’s lives – and you can specify how, and
  3. Your People Have Confidence in You: The people closest to you – those whom you’ll rely on for support through thick and thin (and there will assuredly be “thin”) – give you their confidence in specific, tangible ways – such as reading and critiquing your manuscript, giving you encouragement to take your product public, and/or helping you out financially.

This morning, I received a sympathy card and a gift from my sister. My much-beloved cat, “Cuddles,” had died two weeks ago. She did this to encourage me; she had “confidence” in me. Other friends had banded together to help me get Cuddles’ remains cremated. They took me to the crematorium, and one of them picked up the box of ashes the next day. Another brought by a picture of me with my cat; it had been taken when we were both glowing with healthy vigor.

Any one of these people could have said, “Why are you putting yourself through the stress of a new start-up company? Why aren’t you getting a ‘day job’? Why aren’t you going for financial security; a job with good pay and nice benefits?”

Instead, they had confidence in me – and in the “benevolence” of my vision. I’ve shared with them what I’m sharing with you; insights about how to launch a well-structured, orderly, solid business and marketing campaign. They see that my approach is solid, and when the challenges come, they support me.

Before you launch, be certain that your “temple council” believes in you, and that your “people” have “confidence” in your vision and in your ability to bring your vision into being.

With whole-hearted best wishes for your own success –

Alianna

Alianna J. Maren, Ph.D.
Founder & Creative Visionary, Mourning Dove Press

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